It’s World Breastfeeding Week and we’re sending hugs to all the tough mamas out there!
Breastfeeding is beautiful and empowering, but there are so many layers to it. lt also takes you to an in-between state, where there is a constant emotional tug of war – you push and you pull, say yes and say no, and seesaw between raw vulnerability and pure magic. From the minute you give birth, time is continuous. The pain and exhaustion are real, but there is a tiny human being waiting to be nurtured. They say it’s “natural”, but it’s more of giving it all you’ve got. You latch for the first time and then again and again, until your nipples get sore and ducts get clogged. You don’t stop and carry on. Practice makes perfect. Soon, there is magic. Your little one settles in the crook of your arm and suddenly, you find yourselves in a bubble of peace and calm. Time stands still. You bond in such a special way and realize that only the present matters. You’re tired and you’ve second guessed yourself many times. Your body is consumed down to the core, but your soul is filled to the brim. Nothing makes you feel more powerful than this.
It’s been 30 months since I started my breastfeeding journey. I remember praying to God to let my milk last even for just 6 months and now I’m starting to wonder when it will be over. Some have asked if I’ve already started weaning my toddler. Yes I’ve tried many times, but she’s not yet ready. So for now, I’ll just savour each moment in our special bubble and thank God for this precious gift.
Starting breastfeeding is hard; sustaining it is harder. It takes a lot of patience and commitment. But what works for one, may not work for others. There shouldn’t be any pressure to succeed. If you realized somewhere along the way that it’s not for you, it’s okay. You should be proud of yourself for choosing the best way to nourish your child. In the end, all we want is a happy mama who can build a safe place for her little one. To do that, I know you need a safe place for yourself too – be it at home or in the workplace. The world needs to support you. But mama, take it easy too.
This week, no mama gets left behind. You are all amazing!
